I am an Xbox player wanting to switch to pc (mainly for mods). I have no experience with mods on any pc game. I would like to try something new with skyrim. I'm mainly looking for charactercreation mods and other roleplaying mods. So my questions are:
1) what are the must have mods (not necessarily for role play, but in general)
2) what are the mods to stay away from
3) what are the most trusted mod sites/makers
4) what are good character creation mods that look natural to skyrim and not obvious mods
5) can I alter a followers appearance with mods
6) are there mods that allow you to create your own town and add new npcs throughout the games
7) what is the mod that allows you to sit by a fire pit, hold mugs, etc
8) are there mods that create non human children
9) are mods easy to use; any complaints

Thanks!