i was able to shut it down with task manager, which would close itself within seconds every time i opened it so i had to be quick, my anti virus software (avast) was blocking repeated attempts to open a website so i disconnected my internet. the source of the files was in my roaming folder and i deleted any new files that had not been there half an hour ago (they had weird names too like: S2dkjadXjshfd. or whatever.) and that seemed to finally close the main pop up but ultimately i have not been able to delete the main exe. (that my antivirus warns me that is suspicous and asks me if i want to open it every 45 seconds) because windows won't let me shut down a program that is not running, and it isn't showing up in task manager.
so basicly the purpose of me posting this is a heads up for non tech savy people.
as well as asking for some help from some more tech savy people. for now i am keeping my infected computer disconnected from the internet.
