Realistic Lighting offers just about any type of tweaking you can imagine via a simple ini.
I can vouch for this. I've never used a lighting mod that offered this amount of configurability. It really is a wondrous tool for fine-tuning the look of the game. Of course, as AiTenshi1 says, it can take some time to make the mod do exactly what you want. I guess I've probably spent about five or six hours tweaking my .ini (I actually
enjoy fiddling with mod .ini's, don't ask me why). I'll probably continue to tweak as time goes on, but my game basically looks extremely close to the way I want it to look now. Thanks, Plutoman!