one more thing, has anyone got a dual wielding/ heavy armor/ nord warrior build i can refer to?
Not to over simplify, (and yes there are probably guides out there), but the dual wield + heavy armor build is as simple as putting a weapon in each hand, wearing heavy armor, power attack, loot, repeat.
Just put perks in onehanded as they open up - ONE rank of dual flurry (second rank is bugged), and eventually dual savagry when you are high enough. Watch for stanima gear and food items that regenerate stanima (like vegetable stew) as you need stanima to do your power attack over and over. I'd say your stanima to health requirements are about 50-50, but I was closer to 60-40 (with a shield for certain fights)
Oh, and if you find heavy armor slows you down too much, get the steed stone active effect. You will get a big boost to carry ability and your armor will not slow you down. Later, if you feel like spending a LOT of perks in heavy armor you can get this same bonus through a perk, but it is high up in the tree.
My tank is a one handed + shield, but dual weilds against foes that are too dangerous unless killed right away, like mages. Very similar build minus the patience it takes to turtle through the fights with block
