would be neat. I'll even be content to make thane more than an honorary title via mods... perhaps a nice estate in the countryside, with a few farms, a small town, my own militia...
This is *exactly* what I was thinking. When I first escaped from Helgen I thought: Wouldn't it be awesome if at the end of the main quest the top person made you the Jarl of the town and subdivided a small amount of land from The Rift and made it Helgen Hold or something. Then you could pay to fix it up, create some farms on the outskirts and generally run the place. Then again, that's exactly what I thought after saving Martin from Kvatch so...I don't think Bethesda thinks like me.
At least for your efforts they could have given you some small hamlet somewhere, but no. Such is life.