The six (or gender) of the people who are attracted to you really has nothing to do with your sixual orientation anyway...

Yes.

It's your character, is it not? You should know.

Since the game doesn't ask you your character's sixual orientation when you do your character creation, how is it supposed to know? I really don't see the big deal. Just because someone says they are interested doesn't mean you have to marry them. Same as real life, you aren't forced to be with anyone just because they profess an interest. Marriage in Skyrim is more of a business transaction anyhow.

i hoped the married dualogue wasnt so lovie so i could rp that a samesix marrages as a friendship or buisness partners, too set up none main quest playthroughs ect. alas my hunters may just have to be more than just good friends lol.

Yes

Maybe the game knows your s/n is Squirrel?