I need help apperantly...I got married to Aela the huntress in the companions guild and she disappered one day...ive checked my house in whiterun, in Jovaskr and she isnt there..Also, i dont think she is dead because the messenger didnt give me a note thats she is dead...PLEASE HELP

Yeah, she ran off with Lydia, they're lesbos.

I have seen followers get stuck in weird places. Fast travel and reloads usually bring them back. At the end of a fight one follower remained in the fighting position and I could not do anything with them. When I fast traveled they returned. I haven't heard of followers permanently disappearing. I wish they had the same thing in Fallout New Vegas where you could see them on the map. That feature helped me quit wondering a lot.

if you are on pc, you can use console commands to bring her to you.

i tried fast traveling, get a new traveler, and she isnt there at all...no where to be found

She really just didn't like you I guess. She's really trying hard to hide from you.

That svcks...i would be rich in the game....

Look at her house, if she has one. When you get married they don't always come straight to your house, you have to ask them.

I have a house with her in breezehome..i asked right after we married

Also, i cant do any companion quest because it keeps saying...Arent you already doing a quest for aela..And i dont even have one

Brelyna used to freeze on me all the time.She would look at me but wouldn't move.Do you remember where you last saw her?You might have to backtrack.I hope you have lots of saves!