Its difficult for me to really care about the love interest in most action games these days because its some busty, curvy chick but at least in the Mojave Wasteland I have the opportunity to find pixellated love.
I agree completely - we had a a similar thread about this on our Alpha Protocol boards awhile back. While it's easier for me to 'project' into a prebuilt (as with many action games) male avatar with a female love interest or whatever, in an RPG where I develop my own character, it becomes much more difficult, and downright impossible if my only romance options are male.
Don't miss Dragon Age, then. Straight and gay options for both genders...
I could be wrong, but my understanding is that "gay" characters in Dragon Age are not actually gay; they simply have romance options regardless of the player's gender?
Fallout: New Vegas has characters that are actually, well,
gay - there's something very superficial to me about having all characters be either straight or "bi" (in the gameplay sense) simply so all romance options are available (equally so when 'gay' characters don't exist in the world outside of romance options). While I understand and appreciate this with regard to player experience, it reduces the meaningfulness of the character's personality to me as someone who is actually gay.
Anyway, glad you guys like those perks - Cherchez la Femme is without question my favorite Fallout perk.

(Here's a tidbit for you - when Josh and I were discussing the 'gay' perks, he originally thought of calling it "Practical Shoes.")