Is there a way to fix this?The body's I make never match the color of the head.Am I doing something wrong?

You need to export the head meshes and textures. Select your actor in the Actor subheading of the object window. Just click on them, then hit Control+F4 and say Yes. It will then create FaceGen meshes and textures in your Meshes and Textures folders in your Data folder that must be destributed with your mod.

Thanks so much,one more question what exactly do I have to do to make my new follower level with me?I took tutorials but none explain exactly how to do this under stats or how to customize the stats such as two handed skill ext.