It started with me accidently attacking my assassin with the scroll that a mage has you test. Then he started attacking me so i yielded but then sence the spell was still hirting him he contued to attack me so i used calm and ran but then when i got back to the sanctuary to pay the fine to Nazir, they all starting attacking me too. so i use calm on them to and was able to pay the fine but after calm went away they started up again.

So I was wondering if theres a console command i can use to fix this? because i dont have a save before i attacked my assassin.

BTW I completed all of the Dark Brotherhood missions.

So no auto save before you entered that area?

if calm is not working permamently, it sounds like they've been angered to the point of a faction change or penality.
I'm not sure how to edit them apprioately for the npc's to be honest. I understand it can be done, but without knowing what setting it should of been before, I'm not going to suggest tampering with it.

So i'm not sure if this next advice will work (yes it's the same thing to reset a follower, so they can level up)
1. Open the console (~ key).
2. Click the NPC.
3. Type "disable", then hit enter.
4. Type "enable", then hit enter.
5. Close the console.

I tried the enable disable it didn't work. I think i must of glitched it with the calm spell. I'm not using any mods. I have an auto save before i enter but they still attack me i just don't have one before i attacked the assassin. i just don't want to have to restart because I'm far in the game.