I don't 'like' certain things in this game as well but if you choose not to develop an aspect of being a mage you can't very well complain about it too. It's like saying you want to play DID but you don't like getting one shotted.
It's fair because mage is intentionally crippled by that balance of power. I know some seem to do well mage all Destruction but not me. I tried and realized that the game is beyond me that way so I added some added abilities. In my case, I added Conjuration and Archery.
Since so many seem to be able to mage only here, I have to put it down to game playing skill. Comments like the OP just say to me, "I'm not a very good player but I want to play the game by my rules rather than the world laid out by BS."
