Whether it's complexion, skin tone, whatever.. its so hard to even make there head color match there actual skin color.

On top of that they are ugly, I know because that's how they are supposed to be. I've already been lectured. It's just the fact the females look WAAY young and the Males look in there 70s and stuff.. like woah.

Anyone know of good char. making tutorials? Vids possibly?

Yeah, I've always loved playing as Dunmers. But when I made my character on Skyrim, he had sunken cheeks, wrinkles, bags under the eyes.
In Oblivion, they all had puffy faces. They almost look the best in Morrowind, dated graphics notwithstanding.

This is an excellent tutorial: http://j-u-i-c-e.hubpages.com/hub/better-looking-characters. It doesn't actually focus on making generic pretty people, so don't be fooled by the tutorial name.

I spent 2 hours making a decent looking Dark Elf....I failed. 2 hours down the drain.

http://cloud.steampowered.com/ugc/648752231931448812/FA515817562F95ACCB50A261CDDE4A90818C9209/

Nah I got mods... http://cloud.steampowered.com/ugc/648747634021053862/93A01B778E521DC93C84EC790258AA4C9CABD440/

But if you eff with it enough you can make them look bearable and good looking in a rough sort of way.

http://cloud.steampowered.com/ugc/650998799282171228/80C7F15E66047E2F3BBF05604886BFD142FC8C53/

Yeah im not on PC. I will admit though the graphics are astonishing compared to that of consoles. I'm playing on 360 with 40" 1080p TV with HDMI. It just seems impossible on console at least to do what you are doing Dunmer.