ok im looking for the right door trigger ones that u just walk into and it will open.. i have the (default activate Self) trig.. it works both ways as u need one on the outside and one inside but wont work again how do i get it to reopen and re close the gate? or is there a diff trig i need to use... this is the last part i need to finish the out side of my castle.. then ill move to the inside..

If you want an automatic load door (like used in caves), then filter "Auto" in doors and it'll pop up.

If you want a trigger to open a non-load door, you'll need to script it. You could either do some conditionals on a trigger event, or just make the trigger stretch over both sides of the door, and use the OnTriggerEnter and OnTriggerLeave events to open/close the gate (either through activation using the default triggers you've described, or PlayGamebryoAnimation).

Select your door in the render window and click on the create trigger button to make a new trigger box
in the pop up dialogue choose [defaultActSelfOnEnterOnLeaveTRIG], then set the doors activate parent to the trigger box.

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