Im playing a female Breton now after playing male Breton, female Bretons are shorter than males so when I stand next to Eola (whos also a female Breton) she seems to be shorter than me but in 3rd person were same height. I seem to be same height as when I was male. Im suspecting there's one set cam height for all races is this true?

*edit made typo in title but cant change it in the editor*

I do believe so, if I'm recalling another discussion I read awhile ago correctly.

I've also noticed you can't see your own shadow in 1st person.

Yes, 1st person view is static among all races/sixes, while characters in 3rd person aren't. Easy fix on PC...not so much on consoles.