I'm having a really odd problem with FCOM running:
Getting 'stuck' in containers and/or having merchants not open dialog at all (not even a greeting) until anywhere up to 5 minutes and a billion miles away

Sometimes a guy I tried to talk to will suddenly pop his greeting up when after I enter a city gate or a building all the way on the Shivering Isles, when the dude I tried to talk to was wandering the road outside of Chorrol

It seems to happen with wandering merchant type NPC's from Tamriel Travellers or Crowded Roads, regardless of which I'm using (and when I had TT installed, I had the FCOM patch, yes)..
It is also seeming to happen (or something similar is happening) with containers. It's usually barrels, but sometimes with other containers as well. My only recourse for this problem is to go into the console and type enableplayercontrols. Note that on the container problem, the container inventory never pops up, unlike the merchant dialog.
This happens with or without COBL installed. When I had COBL installed, I tried to fix it by shutting off container looting through its options menu, but it didn't help.
I tried re-installing OOO, since from what I understand, OOO is what handles box looting, but that did not solve the issue either.
Here is my load order. It's a codebox so you can use the scrollbar to roll through it

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Active Mod Files:00 Oblivion.esm01 Francesco's Leveled Creatures-Items Mod.esm02 Francesco's Optional New Items Add-On.esm03 Tamrielic Ingredients.esm04 Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esm [Version 1.34]05 Mart's Monster Mod.esm [Version 3.7b3p3]06 Enhanced Daedric Invasion.esm07 CyrodiilUpgradeResourcePack.esm08 FCOM_Convergence.esm [Version 0.9.9MB3]09 DremoraCompanion.esm0A Unofficial Oblivion Patch.esp [Version 3.2.4]0B DLCShiveringIsles.esp0C Unofficial Shivering Isles Patch.esp [Version 1.4.0]0D SM Plugin Refurbish - SI.esp [Version 1.05]0E Francesco's Optional Chance of Stronger Bosses.esp0F Francesco's Optional Chance of Stronger Enemies.esp10 Francesco's Optional Chance of More Enemies.esp11 Francesco's Optional Leveled Guards.esp++ FCOM_Francescos.esp [Version 0.9.9]++ FCOM_FrancescosItemsAddOn.esp [Version 0.9.9]12 FCOM_FrancescosNamedBosses.esp [Version 0.9.9]13 Fran Armor Add-on.esp++ oc_darker_nights.esp++ darker nights for shivering isles.esp14 Enhanced Water v2.0 ND.esp15 AliveWaters.esp16 AliveWaters - Slaughterfish Addon.esp17 Crowded Roads 23.esp18 Map Marker Overhaul.esp [Version 3.3]19 Map Marker Overhaul - SI additions.esp [Version 3.0.2]1A DLCOrrery.esp1B DLCOrrery - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.3]1C SM Plugin Refurbish - Orrery.esp [Version 1.11]1D DLCSpellTomes.esp++ DLCSpellTomes - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.1]1E ACCCGR SI.esp1F Staff of Lore.esp20 Shadow Steed.esp21 Slof's Oblivion Robe Trader.esp22 Tamrielic_Ingredients_cOMbo.esp++ FCOM_TamrielicIngredients.esp [Version 0.9.9]23 Bob's Armory Oblivion.esp24 FCOM_BobsArmory.esp [Version 0.9.9]25 Loth's Blunt Weapons for Npcs.esp++ FCOM_LothsBluntWeapons.esp [Version 0.9.9]26 Oblivion WarCry EV.esp27 FCOM_WarCry.esp [Version 0.9.9MB3]28 Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esp [Version 1.34]29 FCOM_Convergence.esp [Version 0.9.9Mb3]2A FCOM_RealSwords.esp [Version 0.9.9]2B FCOM_DurabilityAndDamage.esp [Version 0.9.9]++ FCOM_NoReaversInGates.esp [Version 0.9.9]++ FCOM_NoAdventurersInGates.esp [Version 0.9.9]2C Mart's Monster Mod - Farm Animals.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]2D adTreeHome.esp2E Knights.esp** Knights - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.9]++ SM Plugin Refurbish - Knights.esp [Version 1.06]2F Origin of the Mages Guild.esp [Version 6.1]30 Mart's Monster Mod - City Defences.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]++ FCOM_Knights.esp [Version 0.9.9Mb3]++ FCOM_SlofsRobeTrader.esp [Version 0.9.9]31 FCOM_OMG.esp [Version 0.9.9]++ FCOM_OMGSRT.esp [Version 0.9.9]32 Enhanced Daedric Invasion.esp++ FCOM_EnhancedDaedricInvasion.esp [Version 0.9.9]++ FCOM_UnofficialFranArmorAddon.esp [Version 0.9.9]33 Harvest [Flora].esp [Version 3.0.0]++ Harvest [Flora] - Shivering Isles.esp [Version 3.0.0]++ moremerchantmoneyv1.1.esp34 Shadow Ranger.esp [Version 2.9.2]35 Disenchant.esp36 Gather Ye Rosebuds.esp37 StartingSpells.esp38 SupremeMagicka.esp [Version 0.89]39 SM_ShiveringIsles.esp [Version 0.86]++ SM_DLCSpellTome.esp [Version 0.80]++ SM_OOO.esp [Version 0.89]++ SM_MMM.esp [Version 0.89]3A SM_EnchantStaff.esp [Version 0.80]++ SM_Scrolls.esp [Version 0.84]++ SM_SigilStone.esp [Version 0.83]3B Druid.esp3C Dark Dungeons - SI.esp3D DremoraCompanion.esp3E bgBalancingEVCore.esp [Version 10.52EV-D]++ bgBalancingEVNoSIVersion_Core_still_required.esp [Version 10.5DV-D]3F bgBalancingOptionalLessHealth.esp [Version 10.0UV-U]++ bgBalancingEVOptionalClasses.esp [Version 9.0EV-U]++ bgBalancingEVOptionalFangs.esp [Version 10.0EV-D]++ bgBalancingEVOptionalMoreEyes.esp [Version 10]40 bgBalancingEVOptionalNPCDiversity, Vanilla.esp [Version 10.0EV-D]++ bgBalancingEVOptionalFCOMAdditions.esp [Version 10.]41 CM Armor Expansion.esp++ LightSpellTorch.esp42 Bashed Patch, 0.esp
ALSO, I am running the newest 'dev' pluggy, the newest OBSE, stutter reducer dll, and crash stopping dll (from the Nexus).
The problem existed before about half of those mods listed were installed, but if you see something that might be a culprit, let me know and I'll try to remember when I installed it.
Any help you can give would be great.