» Fri May 27, 2011 6:47 am
If you have the game, check the manual at the bottom of page 21.
"Fire Teams
During online play you can press start and gain access to a team scoreboard. While on the scoreboard, you can select teammates and invite them to join a fireteam. If they accept, a private voice chat line will be automatically opened with them and you will be guaranteed to stay with them in any subsequent mission until you return to the title screen. When you are in a match with your friends, you are automatically placed into a Fireteam with them."
So it seems that the auto fire team function isn't working for you. You can try and make it yourself this way. Also other tips I have seen on the forums say to get everyone in an xbox live party and while on the first loading screen to a match invite your friends and they should be added into the same game. Whether or not they will be in your fireteam is a different story. Hope this helps.