I was thinking about trying to use a modified courier package (WICourier I think, I'm not near the CK atm) but prior to starting over I thought I should ask to see if there is a fix for ForceGreet or any entirely better way to handle this.
Ideally what I'm after is if the follower is currently following the player the conversation starts immediately. If the follower is not with the player they'll stay where they wait (Lydia in breezehome for example) until the player comes close enough to trigger the conversation.
Thanks!

and was amenable to working whether she was sitting in one place or sandboxing around.