Girl situation

Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 5:33 pm

So Awhile I go I started talking to this girl, and asked her out on a date. She said yes, and all was good for a little bit, then she got depressed about something, and I did my absolute best and really tried to help her out, but I must've said the wrong thing and got her angry, then an argument happened. We had a short little 'falling out' that lasted like two weeks where we didn't talk to eachother (or rather, she didn't talk to me). Out of nowhere 3 days ago she starts talking to me again, and it's almost like its back to normal. I still like her alot, she's an awesome girl, and I'm still interested in going out with her, but I'm confused right now about what I should do because it really threw me off when she immediately changed from being pissed at me and not talking to me at all, back to how she used to act around me. Should I ask her out again? Give it some more time? Drop it completely and just be friends? My brain hurts thinking about it :P
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Angelina Mayo
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 5:44 pm

Dude, when in doubt. JAHO.
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Sheeva
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 2:44 pm

So Awhile I go I started talking to this girl, and asked her out

:clap: :goodjob:

oh thank god you said that, otherwise this thread would have been spammed to death with a very annoying forum meme

EDIT: too late... damn you suffca :P
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Stacyia
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 7:11 pm

You always create a thread and then you never reply.
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Gisela Amaya
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 5:17 pm

Well, I plan to, but I'm just not sure if I should do it now, or wait like a week to see what she does.
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Reanan-Marie Olsen
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 10:38 am

You always create a thread and then you never reply.


Well that's because most of the time I make a thread, go out and do stuff, then check on it hours later, by that time my question / concern has been answered several times and there's no need to respond :P
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Kat Lehmann
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 4:12 am

YOU again... Do it NOW! Noooow!
Then you'll know for goodness' sake. Report back after that.
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Rex Help
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 6:34 pm

Women! *throws hands in air and stomps off*
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Melly Angelic
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 5:08 am

Well that's because most of the time I make a thread, go out and do stuff, then check on it hours later, by that time my question / concern has been answered several times and there's no need to respond :P


You reply with "thank you" or "ok".
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Micah Judaeah
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 9:37 am

You reply with "thank you" or "ok".

We here at CD love to hear how our advice works out. Although, JAHO, has a 50% fail rate.
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Harry Hearing
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 10:02 am

You reply with "thank you" or "ok".

A popular reply on other forums is "KTHXBAI!", which is usually posted a couple of weeks after the thread died due to inactivity and the user is never seen again. :nod:
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Kevin Jay
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 3:44 pm

You know, don't think about her all time time, about what she wants and how she wants to do things. Do what you want, do what makes you happy.
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Vivien
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 6:05 pm

You reply with "thank you" or "ok".


And I normally will provided the thread is still on the first or second page. But if it fell back like 4 or 5 pages and I replied it would pointlessly bump the thread back to the first page, and people would keep talking about it even after there's no point anymore
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 5:20 pm

You know, don't think about her all time time, about what she wants and how she wants to do things. Do what you want, do what makes you happy.


Wish I could! I would love to just not give a [censored] sometimes, unfortunately I'm a bit of a softy and romantic :/
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Kay O'Hara
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 9:18 am

[Generic Girl Advice]
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Adam Baumgartner
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 10:37 am

Call her up. Right now! And then provide us with live updates as the phone call progresses.

kthxbai, JAHO, women! *throws hands in air*, etc..
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Harinder Ghag
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 5:32 am

I wish I had a dollar every time a girl I was talking to got "don't talk to me again!" angry at me for basically nothing only to stop fighting a week later and come back to normal. My first thought: probably on her period. I'd be pissed off too, sounds like it svcks. If not, second thought: she's just a crazy girl.

Wait it out a little while, try and spark it back up. If everything is clear sailing for a few weeks, you're fine. If not, she's nuts, move on.
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 5:05 am

Wait a couple more days and then just ask her out again. Don't see what's so brain-hurt worthy here. :shrug:
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Cat
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 10:17 am

You know, maybe the reason you have all these relationship issues is because you keep coming to us for advice. :P
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Stephanie Kemp
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 6:12 am

I'm going to give you some advice. "Go for" every girl you can. If it isn't working out with this girl, go to the next. Then come back for more if you can. And it don't matter what the girl looks like, acts like, w.e.. If you can tackle it then do it. It's all good and is good experience. Be smart though and don't go havin' no babies. There's plenty of time to focus on one girl later on.
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 4:22 pm

You know, maybe the reason you have all these relationship issues is because you keep coming to us for advice. :P

I thought gaming forumers were experts at intimate relationships. :unsure:
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Lou
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 9:32 am

have six with her mum
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Matt Bee
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 3:29 pm

have six with her mum


:laugh:

OT - Women, eh?
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Natalie J Webster
 
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Post » Fri Dec 16, 2011 6:11 am

have six with her mum

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sally R
 
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have six with her mum


I feel like I'm on "The Flood" :blink:
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