Be warned however, if you crash course all the questlines, look up every spot of interest on the wiki, then you never have a chance of being suprised or awe struck. Then the only thing you can do is wait for DLC to make the game good again. I mean look at me. I have 4 characters in with over 300 hours of gameplay, and i haven't even completed the main questline or the mages guild. I don't expect everyone to be as hardcoe as i am, but if people would take things down a couple notches and take notice, you can get way more than yuo bargined for in this game.
Yeah, I hear you. I'm still on my first playthru character (not counting a couple of short experimentals initially), around 400 hrs, and I haven't completed any questlines (unless specific daedric quests are considered questlines). I'm lvl 42 but am barely into the main quest (met with the greybeards once but still haven't gotten the horn of ... whatever) and somewhat into the DB but -- no spoilers! -- I don't know how far. I haven't really done that many sidequests either. I'll save other questlines for future characters where they fit their story.
Playing a sneak character has certainly inflated my time as I go slow (but love the suspense) thru the dungeons. Well, not just in the dungeons. I don't normally sneak in the outer world, but I look for alchemical ingredients, don't FT nor run very much, and get easily distracted by the environment (whether random npc encounters, smoke in the distance, artificial-looking shapes in the distance), so it can easily take me a couple of hours to get from Whiterun to Morthal, e.g. I spend a decent amount of time RP'ing with companions and npcs (how much depending upon my mood/imagination at any given time), and if I'm spending time planning alchemy recipes, smithing/enchanting needs, etc., then I let the game run while my PC sits in Breezehome planning along with me.
I have no idea if my playstyle is considered hardcoe. I don't play this way because it's hard, I play this way because I find it fun and challenging.
However, speed gamers will hate this game becasue they don't have the pateince for it. And i don't blame them. If i had money, and gamed like i used to i'd moved on by now. However, being poor, being a gamer, and having skyrim is a blessing in disguished.
and you can quote me on this:
It's not until Skyrim is all you have, then you realize Skyrim is all you need.
Well, it's not just if one is poor. I'm relatively poor, but I'd pre-ordered "Assassin's Creed: Revelations" (have played and enjoyed all the other AC installments) along with Skyrim and picked it up a few days after Skyrim's release. It's still sitting in its box, shrink-wrap and all. Come to think about it, I hope it's not defective as I'm probably passed the return date ... oops. I'll get around to it after I *finally* finish this character's story, but I had no idea back in November that come late February I'd be this long into Skyrim with so much left to do and still having so much fun with my first playthru.