If you have the speaker icon by your clock, right click it and select playback.
Then in the open window, select your Speakers, then at the bottom click Configure. Here you can change your windows speaker setup. In the options, you can choose 2.1 Quadraphonic or 5.1 (usually).
You want quadraphonic. You can't make skyrim use a custom speaker option, but you can change the windows speaker settings each time you play.