So i get to Riverwood, talk to Gerda, then decided i dont want my character to become Dragonborn. So i start off to Windhelm to join up with the Stormcloaks, do the first two quest in that questline. The third has me go to Whiterun(#1 place for me to avoid) and deliver a certain item to Jarl Balgruuf(#1 person for me to avoid).I tell him i have something for him from Ulfric and he says "Ulfric can wait, i have a dragon problem to deal with." So then inevitably i have to talk to the Court Wizard. I pull up the quest log and under the quest for the Stormcloaks it says "Assist Jarl Balgruuf with the dragon problem".
So i was wanting to really get into RPing with this character and this kinda shots down the roleplay i had in mind. I wanted to roleplay a Stormcloak Soldier who retires after the war and goes on a hiatus, but the then feels something deep inside calling him back to the life he once knew. He knows he is no longer needed as a soldier so he becomes a sellsword for anyone who has the coin.
But back on topic, why should i have to do a main quest in order to complete a side quest?