Finally got around to picking this up,and while I'm only like 20 hours or so into it,I have encountered a slight problem.
I decided to marry Camilla,and upon doing so,before I was able to talk to her before she left the temple,she just disappeared.

I have tried EVERYTHING to find her again to no avail....I read on Google that if you don't talk to her after the ceremony and say where you want to live (which I wasn't able to do) she will disappear not to return again. I didn't have a save available to reload as I had been clearing out my auto saves as I also read that's what will contribute to the "stutter" in the the PS3 version (not sure if that's the case or not)

I was just wondering though...is there anything that can be done to make her reappear again? or am I just screwed...what makes it worse is the game won't let me remarry and recognizes me as married even though she's not there. here's the stuff I tried based on Google...to no avail.

1-went to Riverwood several times
2-checked the temple several times,as well as waited IN the temple for 24 hours
3-checked my house in WhiteRun...

Is there any way for this to be patched or anything?

This has been reported several times, and as far as I know your spouse sometimes tries to leave before you can decide where you want to live. The only way I know around this is too exit out of the conversation with the priest and tell your spouse where you want to live, before they get exit the temple