So I am going for a new class that is a defensive stealthy mage hybrid. I know most of what I plan to do for this character but I am still debating on a few points. What I am debating on is whether or not focus on Illusion, I dont really plan to be a hardcoe assassin type so I am not trying to maximize pure stealth with invisibility and/or muffle. I am more interested in the illusions skills of pacify, fear, etc., so what I am curious about is whether or not those spells are actually useful. I have heard from friends that Illusion just isnt very useful as a core magic school at upper echelon levels and that going destruction, conjuration, or alteration is better. So for all you mages/rogues out there who know, I would appreciate your insight on this.
(ideally I want to use alteration and not really use destruction or conjuration much, my damage output will be with my one handed sword, I just dont know if illusion should be a primary focus in my character)