Ok so I made my first house mod (YAY) and now I want to make the option to move any spouse you marry in the game to be able to go and live there by asking her to move there in game. I am guessing there isn't a quick way to do this but if anyone could possibly help me out on how to do this, I will be forever in your debt.

Save yourself the headaches and link this mod on your description page.

http://skyrim.nexusmods.com/downloads/file.php?id=11370

Thank you very much for the quick response and for saving me the trouble. Although I will probably be back for more help soon

Enjoy your day eldiabs

there is no clean way to add spouse function to your home (through the vanilla dialogue functionality).

"Spouses Can Live Anywhere" mod is as good as its going to get.

long story short, there can only be one mod that edits the marriage quest. so if multiple house mods try to edit the same quest and aliases, this will cause very bad conflicts.