I don't like making mod requests, but I'm not comfortable poking around in the dialogue system, so it seems I must. I've searched high and low and I found somemods that sort of do this but also do lots of other things.

My request is but a simple one: I would like it so that when you marry a Housecarl, they stop calling you Thane every time they greet or say goodbye, and instead use the romance dialogues (or a combination of neutral and romance). I figure once we're married, we're a little bit past that formality.

Thanks to anyone who replies, crossing my fingers and graciously hoping someone will take this up.