I have tried leaving for abour a week, game time, and it still doesn't work. I am on Xbox 360
Okay. So am i.
Umm... Try this:
Save in front of her.
Then exit to dashboard.
Right aftet you press a to play the game and the screen goes black, press and hold a. Keep holding until it says press start. That clears the cache.
Then load the game and see if the option is there.
If not, i would suggest leveling destruction to 100...
How far along are you in the college quest line?
Im up to the part where you have to talk to mirabelle about the staff.