I assumed the tents not going up was the result of the Khajiits and my character entering the cell at the same time (they're walking, not already in place). When I enter/leave the cell, the tents are there. I even watched, once, just to see if there was an animation of the tents going up, but one does not exist. I'm guessing this is due to the lack of said animation, and thus player must leave/return to see them in place.
As for the Alik'r warriors, get used to them. They'll remain there until the end of the game, and it's due to the completion of the quest.
The two glitches don't seem to be related, but this is Skyrim. Opening a door in Solitude will kill someone in Riften.