The whole thing was executed a bit badly imo, there was never any incentive to really become a Nightingale other than to continue the story and become the guild leader, which is what I wanted so I could bring the guild back to glory. Even the nightingale armour is given to you before you sign your soul away, you can just run off and take it. If looking like Batman in a medieval fantasy game is your thing.
I found that Skyrim in general forces the player to go against his character's nature, in order to do things the player wants to do, here's a list of the stuff I found so far.
You have to become the Dragonborn (officially recognized as such) to complete the Imperial storyline. (probably Stormcloak too)
You have to join the College of Winterhold to complete the main story.
You have to join the thieves guild to complete the main story, unless you want to stack up enough stuff to pass an 80% speech check.
You have to become a werewolf to complete the companion storyline.
You have to become a nightingale to complete the thieves guild storyline.
