... as I seem to be wiping things out really quickly with sneak attacks...
That happened to me too. It seems that once you are killing most creatures with one hit of your daggers levelling up takes for ever, which makes sense as you are not actually using your skill very much. The way round it is, as others have said, to start working on skills you have so far neglected, but fit your character (illusion, smithing etc.). The problem then repeats and in my experience you either have to start building skills that your character would never use, thus destroying the RP element of the game, or accept a cap on your level.
Personally, I think by the time you get to the early/mid-fifties your character is pretty much maxed out in as much as you can kill anything you want to, go where you want to, without fear of serious harm, and further levelling just takes you further away from the line you wanted to play at the start. Why would a very successful sneaky assassin want to get involved in destruction magic or shield-bashing?