Please forgive me if I should have started a new topic for this, but I try to make use of existing topics that have to do with my question when possible. I wasn't sure if this was too old a topic on which to attach my questions.
Anyway, I am trying to make sure I understand the Steam/CK buisness. I apologize if I seem to be slow. I have not created any mods, yet, but am wanting to for Skyrim. Now, if I understand correctly, I can't do that.
I bought a copy of Skyrim for $59 US a few months ago. Was excited when news of the CK hit, because, having come up with some unique ideas, I decided I would give modding a try. However, and here is the part I need to confirm, it looks like I won't be modding this game.
Can anyone tell me whether or not any of the following is correct?:
Only people who purchased their copy of Skyrim through Steam can download the CK;
or,
You don't have to have a Steam copy, but you do have to register at the Steam website to download it;
and/or,
You have to install a Steam program on your PC in order to use the CK.
I don't want to use Steam; there is no reason for me to use it. I purchased a retail copy of the game, I download mods from PES or Nexus, I use only Wrye Smash and BOSS (because, really, what else do you need?)

, and I don't want Steam (nor anyone else) to force updates nor mess with times/load order, etc. Personal preference.
I know I am something of a dinosaur in my views, but even if I felt otherwise, how am I supposed to use Steam when I already have a retail version of Skyrim? Buy another copy, via Steam, use my current copy for a door stop, and submit to Steam's way of doing things? If the CK is only available to those with a Steam copy of Skyrim, then why was there a retail version at all?
Please forgive me, again; I realize this has morphed into a rant, from simply asking questions, but I am incredibly frustrated. I guess I can just learn modding using Oblivion - nothing wrong with that - but I wanted very much to do something with Skyrim.
Am I just out of luck?
I appreciate anyone taking the time to read this poorly-worded quasi-rant of a post. I haven't really been able to get accurate information anywhere, and I have been Googling and reading for a few days. Perhaps I just looked in the wrong places initially, but I figure if there is anywhere I can get some solid info, it is here.
Thank you.