And while yes, it's been an incredible year, I got to ask is the passage of time just whacked or is skyrim much smaller than the map would suggest?
Well, it is a small map compared to a real country and the towns are small compared to real towns, but the main reason you managed to do much within a year is simply because it is a game which gives you a sense of progress much faster than in real life.
You can graduade and become the leader of the College of Winterhold in a matter of few days, while it's very much impossible to do the same in the real world. To become the principal of a College in the real world would take plenty of years. A couple of years to graduade, and plenty of more years to climb the ladder until you're a principal. It would not be fun to play Skyrim and sit by the school bench at the College of Winterhold for years, would it?
Well.. my bad then.

Daggerfall > Arena > Morrowind > Oblivion > Skyrim
So that makes skyrim the smallest. :l
In terms of map size, Morrowind is the smallest, by far.