Okay heres my theory as to why riding dragons is a possibility for dawnguard; in the trailer we see a dragon dive into a frozen lake, lore (correct me if im wrong) suggests that the skyrims volikhar clan of vamps live under frozen lakes, so it kinda looks as if the dragons are helping the dawnguard by possibly attacking these vamps in their lair, suggesting that if you join the dawnguard you might be able to utilize the dragons in some way?
Finally someone else gets it. According to the lore, the Volkihar live under frozen lakes and wait for unsuspecting victims to grab through the ice ("Living" underneath frozen lakes in water would be incredibly boring/uncomfortable, even for a vampire). Now we know that they actually live in a Castle next to a reasonably large body of water. I'd be willing to bet that there's a series of tunnels underneath the Castle that leads to below the surface of the lake, and that's how the Volkihar travel (Seeing as how they're immune to cold and don't need to breathe). They swim beneath the ice of the frozen lakes/rivers to avoid being burned by the sun, and to avoid the notice of mortals. When they get hungry, they find someone near a frozen river/lake, and grab them. That's likely where the rumors and "lore" of them living underneath frozen lakes and grabbing unsuspecting victims comes from. Noone had ever seen them anywhere else other than in frozen water, which is just how they get around.
Seeing as how the Volkihar can now transform into a Paragon form (Which is a recent change), i'd reckon they're no longer wary of mortals. But the one problem they still have, is the sun. Which Harkon wants to rectify that too, with the Elder Scrolls.
I'd also bet that as a Dawnguard, how you infiltrate their lair is not through the heavily guarded front doors (Gargoyles guard the entire bridge), but through the water tunnels beneath the castle. You possibly need a dragon to break through the ice so you can swim down and into the tunnels...