Endarie is the one who is rude in the beginning, but if you invest in their business she will say 
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She will still be a little rude at the end of her conversation with you, but it just makes me laugh every time. Taarie, on the other hand, is always kind, except for saying you might want to change your outfit if you're heading to the Blue Palace, which is completely acceptable. I'm thinking of marrying Taarie. "Oh, why hello! It's so good to see you!" or "It's so nice to have pleasant company for a change."

And it's because High Elves are the best.
