I have lydia as my thane, but she isnt into the marrying, but other women are.
so can i marry a woman, with the thane in the house, or do lose the thane if i marry. Or can, i have the thane in 1 room and my wife with me in another.
If that was a response to me, I was referring to how Lydia seems to do nothing but sit in her/my chair and eat bread. How she keeps her figure I don't know.
I married Ysolda recently, and Lydia, along with a few others from Whiterun, made the journey to see the ceremony. As I was leaving Riften, all the guest were preparing to walk back to Whiterun.