daedric armor is already over the top for me
so you can imagine how i think about flying vampire lord things
It must svck for you playing a game with things that aren't mundane that are going on all around you. I don't see why having the option is so grating for you. I think Deaderic armor would be more acceptable if there was a story behind it myself. Learning to make supernatural armor using the hearts of demons should take an intriguing questline.
Personally, it's because true evil and villainy requires subtlety. It's part of my problem with Jackson's Lord of the Rings. In the prolog you see Sauron dressed up in a way that is so overtly evil it's unbelievable that anybody would trust him at all. Rather than having a character that looks like he constantly shouts "BLARG! I AM EVIL!" I prefer to be an evil character who is much more cloak and dagger, acting as if I'm your friend when really I just want to lead you down the path to ruin.
You know, like Ulfric Stormcloak.

There is a time and place for realistic psychological depth and there is a time and place for timeless archtypes and mythological aesthetics. If you want to roleplay something realistic, get a job as a janitor and don't worry about saving the world. You don't have to be the dovahkinn, and I don't see why you would want people to be deprived of these experiences because you find them tacky.
There are evil gods in this world, and there are evil politicians. You can be both if you really want.
I don't like it when people base their criticism alone on what they find aesthetically pleasing, the idea of things not being mundane enough in a role playing game is something I can't stand to hear used as criticism by people over the years. Sometimes people want a story about Superman or a messiah. Sometimes somebody takes these archtypes and turns them on their nose, like George RR Martin, who makes the rapists wearing black the saviors of the realm and many of his gods man made cultural constructs drawing from a natural power force.
The Elder Scrolls has never been the story about a mundane man in a mundane world, and it just seems like someone is nit picking considering the prior games and the prior content to make this a matter of contention.
I understand where you're coming from, I've had a bad week. Maybe I am taking it out on you. If so I apologize.