what? timescale, where can i change this?
Well, you have to pull up the command console by hitting the ~ key, then type the following
set timescale to #
The default timescale in Skyrim is set to 20 or 25 I think, not sure. This means that time goes by 20 or 25 times faster in game than it does in real life. By setting this number to a lower setting you can slow down how fast time passes in the game. I usually use 5 for my timescale, which means time in game passes 5 times faster than in real life.