Last straw : Othor Games

» Fri May 13, 2011 4:04 pm

I feel for ya but don't have much to add in the way of advice. But, have a http://images.uesp.net//c/c4/Fishystick.jpg. That'll make you feel better :biggrin:

» Fri May 13, 2011 5:28 am

The same thing applies to men really. One of the reasons I left my ex was because she accepted everything I told her. There was no conflict. It's boring.

When my girlfriend does that I purposefully tell her to do something provocative and she says "No" immediately. :hubbahubba:

» Fri May 13, 2011 4:59 am

I've always been a nice guy, don't lie, don't take people I dont know home, but tonight ive been [censored] over for the last time, who else has felt this?

Story of my life. Yeah screw relationships. At least that has been my opinion for the past 5 months. I am taking a nice long break from the dating scene, and spending a little more time with my secret lover, gaming. Not even ashamed and i am happier than i have been in months. Here is to you OP. :foodndrink:

» Fri May 13, 2011 6:17 pm

You hit me once, I'm gonna hit you back twice, mabey three or four times.

Point is, the last straw is the first and only.

» Fri May 13, 2011 7:20 am

The same thing applies to men really. One of the reasons I left my ex was because she accepted everything I told her. There was no conflict. It's boring.

I hate this, it drives me nuts.

I didn't get my car taken but I'll get my girl taken every time
Well damn, women are possesions?
You get dumped every time? Doesn't that make big red lights go off in your brain? Ever think that it could possibly have to do with your attitude?
I'm just going to be a lying [censored] like everyone else, so to all the girls who wish they had someone nice, don;t be a ho.
Aww, even if I was a ho, you couldn't afford me. Most everyone has told a lie in some form or other in their lives.

Women (not girls) like quietly confident men. We dodn't need a man to tell us no, we are quite capapble of making up our own minds, and while we may take a man's opinion into consideration, it's not the law. We are capable of rational thought, managing finances, mechanical inclination, comprehending sports, and taking care of ourselves.
We like a man who enjoys being with us for who we are, and that means the total package. Not the exterior, but the interior as well, the good and the bad.

Perhaps you should re-evaluate what attracts you to a female, and what type of female you seem to continually involve yourself in with disastrous results.
Everyone makes mistakes, learn from yours.
I know I learned from mine.

The part you bolded, he replied to a post I edited at the start, but felt I was being unfair with the [censored] opening I made. So I removed it. (:

» Fri May 13, 2011 9:06 am

I just want to say, in light of your most recent post, I wasn't accusing you of anything.
But...well, I made my point.

» Fri May 13, 2011 6:55 pm

Mmkay, first of all theres nothing like coming home alone at 4 am so sorry about this thread :/

Anyways @ Ninja great advice, pretty much sums up what ive been trying to do
@ Person This instance I was a bit out of line, but for the times I've been the "other guy" or cheated on, I think its fair to use that term. Not all women are at all, and it's horribly degrading to call every women that. I actually think I live in Alberta's New Jersey

To get a few other things straight, I'm not a [censored], I have no problem keeping stuff going with girls, I'm just frustrated with the amount of times I've been used for cheating, been cheated on and just straight up ditched. I'm definatly an ass when I drink too much, and you don't have to believe me but I'm not that bad of a guy, I don't cheat, don't talk behind people's backs, don't cause drama, etc.

Edit:I forgot to mention, the drinking age here is 18, so I'm not really dealing with advlts here. Not that the bar's a good place to look for someone to date, but I'm over finding a relationship now, I'll just enjoy my college years.

I suppose, since you seem mildly apologetic, I can forgive you just this once

I've had horrible things happen to be in relationships. There's simply no point in being full of hatred. I'm still open to finding someone else, because I know everything bad that has happened can also be blamed, in part, on me. I made the choices. Maybe you need to look at it this way, instead of being all bitter. Blaming it all on the girl just makes it worse. Maybe you're difficult to communicate with, maybe you're argumentative, maybe you didn't get to know her well enough, maybe you left the toilet seat up too often, maybe you drink too often, maybe maybe maybe. Everyone has faults. Everyone makes bad choices. People deal with it in the wrong way sometimes. Wallowing about in self pity, calling girls "ho's" and claiming the title of [censored] King is just, well, childish. Admitting that you made a wrong choice, and she made a wrong choice and moving on, is going to be better for you.

Lets just create a couple of little scenarios:
Scenario One 1. A nice girl, who would never cheat and makes a mean roast, knows you. She's fond of you. All of a sudden, you're going, "Oh man, I hate girls and I hate relationships, and it's all her fault, and she's a bad person and has a fat ass anyway and sometimes she smelled funny, and I never want another relationship again, she's a horrible person. This is it, I'm going to be a bad person from now on cause this chick was seriously nasty."

2. A nice girl, who would never cheat and makes a mean roast, knows you. She's fond of you. All of a sudden, you're going "Damn. I got messed around again. We weren't really right for each other, so it didn't end too well. I hope my next relationship turns out better."

Which scenario is going to put her right off? And a hint, girls don't like a guy that always disses his ex. It makes you sound like a nasty person who paid more attention to her faults than to her good side. It also just comes across as bitter and makes it seem like perhaps the relationship ended because you're a [censored]. This isn't exactly directly related to your situation, just a general hint.

» Fri May 13, 2011 7:05 am

Last straw? I take a gulp.

» Fri May 13, 2011 6:54 pm

I suppose, since you seem mildly apologetic, I can forgive you just this once

I've had horrible things happen to be in relationships. There's simply no point in being full of hatred. I'm still open to finding someone else, because I know everything bad that has happened can also be blamed, in part, on me. I made the choices. Maybe you need to look at it this way, instead of being all bitter. Blaming it all on the girl just makes it worse. Maybe you're difficult to communicate with, maybe you're argumentative, maybe you didn't get to know her well enough, maybe you left the toilet seat up too often, maybe you drink too often, maybe maybe maybe. Everyone has faults. Everyone makes bad choices. People deal with it in the wrong way sometimes. Wallowing about in self pity, calling girls "ho's" and claiming the title of [censored] King is just, well, childish. Admitting that you made a wrong choice, and she made a wrong choice and moving on, is going to be better for you.

Lets just create a couple of little scenarios:
Scenario One 1. A nice girl, who would never cheat and makes a mean roast, knows you. She's fond of you. All of a sudden, you're going, "Oh man, I hate girls and I hate relationships, and it's all her fault, and she's a bad person and has a fat ass anyway and sometimes she smelled funny, and I never want another relationship again, she's a horrible person. This is it, I'm going to be a bad person from now on cause this chick was seriously nasty."

2. A nice girl, who would never cheat and makes a mean roast, knows you. She's fond of you. All of a sudden, you're going "Damn. I got messed around again. We weren't really right for each other, so it didn't end too well. I hope my next relationship turns out better."

Which scenario is going to put her right off? And a hint, girls don't like a guy that always disses his ex. It makes you sound like a nasty person who paid more attention to her faults than to her good side. It also just comes across as bitter and makes it seem like perhaps the relationship ended because you're a [censored]. This isn't exactly directly related to your situation, just a general hint.

Really? My ex loved to hear about my bad past relationships, because it made our's seem to awesome. xD

» Fri May 13, 2011 8:03 am

Story of my life. Yeah screw relationships. At least that has been my opinion for the past 5 months. I am taking a nice long break from the dating scene, and spending a little more time with my secret lover, gaming. Not even ashamed and i am happier than i have been in months. Here is to you OP. :foodndrink:

:foodndrink: Now that I calmed down a bit, I'm just going to not look but also not be opposed at the same time to a relationship. I guess now I can also catch up on some gaming!

I suppose, since you seem mildly apologetic, I can forgive you just this once

I've had horrible things happen to be in relationships. There's simply no point in being full of hatred. I'm still open to finding someone else, because I know everything bad that has happened can also be blamed, in part, on me. I made the choices. Maybe you need to look at it this way, instead of being all bitter. Blaming it all on the girl just makes it worse. Maybe you're difficult to communicate with, maybe you're argumentative, maybe you didn't get to know her well enough, maybe you left the toilet seat up too often, maybe you drink too often, maybe maybe maybe. Everyone has faults. Everyone makes bad choices. People deal with it in the wrong way sometimes. Wallowing about in self pity, calling girls "ho's" and claiming the title of [censored] King is just, well, childish. Admitting that you made a wrong choice, and she made a wrong choice and moving on, is going to be better for you.

Lets just create a couple of little scenarios:
Scenario One 1. A nice girl, who would never cheat and makes a mean roast, knows you. She's fond of you. All of a sudden, you're going, "Oh man, I hate girls and I hate relationships, and it's all her fault, and she's a bad person and has a fat ass anyway and sometimes she smelled funny, and I never want another relationship again, she's a horrible person. This is it, I'm going to be a bad person from now on cause this chick was seriously nasty."

2. A nice girl, who would never cheat and makes a mean roast, knows you. She's fond of you. All of a sudden, you're going "Damn. I got messed around again. We weren't really right for each other, so it didn't end too well. I hope my next relationship turns out better."

Which scenario is going to put her right off? And a hint, girls don't like a guy that always disses his ex. It makes you sound like a nasty person who paid more attention to her faults than to her good side. It also just comes across as bitter and makes it seem like perhaps the relationship ended because you're a [censored]. This isn't exactly directly related to your situation, just a general hint.

You're too right, just after I finally get good at not being super petty, this happens and I overreact :confused: That was just angry, drunk me but in reality my plan is just to stop looking (for real this time though), but not be opposed if something comes up. I also know about the ex thing, for me I just wait until I know the girl well enough because I don't like to seem like someone who complains about everything and is super bitter. I know that I just made this thread too though lol