uhh, well this is goig to sound really silly, but I think I found the solution, it wantted me to verify the e-mail in settings,after doing that it now seems to be continuing
I'm an idiot I know

fals alarm kit's still not working right, now it shows that it's downloading, but the amount is zero, as in nothing is downloading.
my laptop has 4.00 GB of RAM, and I haven't downloaded any large amount of programs, Steam should be the largest one so far. I've got Skype, AIM and Morrowind on here and Minecraft and MS word and Security Essentials, but none of those should be that large.