WoW is the only MMORPG I've ever played - or am ever likely to play (since I "use" it as a solo game because the "social" aspects are seriously NOT my thing.... I'm a HERMIT and proud of it!)
In WoW, I've got to the point where I regularly "prune" the quest logs of all my toons. Sometimes I'll pick stuff up without even thinking about it - and looking at it later, I KNOW I've done that quest before, it svckED, and I'm not going to want to do it again.... so it's gone. The nice thing about it is that you never feel as if it's something you HAVE to do (unless you're seriously anol-retentive, and I do know people like that....)
...tried retiring from that and just being "one of the guys" but always ended up in at least an officer postiion somehow.In that game I spent years believing I had to set a good example to others if I was going to make leadership demands of them.Suddenly I was paying to work for a game I truly enjoyed even without a raid or group.Skyrim is the first game in a long time that's given me some nice peace and allowed me to literally do whatever I want on my own time schedule.
Skyrim is literally a blank slate when it comes to how the player approaches it.I now view my starting strategy literally as a huge mistake as I was trying to fit it into a mold that doesn't belong to it.
Amen to both of you, I'm reading my own experience and thoughts here. I was (still am, I suspect) a co-guild leader of a very large guild, and I like my fellow leaders there. But it takes time and energy to maintain things where I'd rather just log on and play. Even when I created a toon on another realm, it seemed inevitable that I'd be in some leadership position in any guild I joined. Well, in six days, one of my accounts will expire, the other at the end of March. At this time I just can't see myself playing in that hamster wheel again.
Skyrim let's me do just what I want when I want to. And there's no end-of-the-rainbow perpetual gear chase, either. By the time you are reasonably geared, a patch comes along and your are down a rung or three. Also, I'd much rather solo a dungeon, taking the time to appreciate the work that went into it, applying a strategy to get through it, rather than have to zerg through it with alternately impatient and inattentive people. Sadly, WoW is infested with people who seem to enjoy wrecking other people's enjoyment.
As for quests, I've gotten Loremaster on a couple of toons, one the old way, the other the new way. I liked being able to quit a quest which still left me the option of picking it up again later. I'm getting used to the Skyrim way, however.