I don't agree most of the problems were user specific, and mainly not there fault, there is still some things that were wrong with the game when it was released, but they have been fixed
Sorry to have to violently disagree with you about this, Swarley. The issues with the game are manifold, and many are game-breakingly profound. If you haven't encountered any, then you are fortunate. Keep playing! As time goes by, the likelihood that you'll suffer a corrupted save or a freeze will only grow. Bethesda has acknowledged some of the problems, and they say they're working on it. But in the meantime, lots of us can't play, or after having suffered a few corrupted saves that completely obliterate hours of hard in-game work, many of us simply don't feel we can risk playing it again until it's fully patched, for fear of wasting still more time and energy on game progress that could vanish at any time due to a mostly unpredictable save corruption.
As far as the OP's question goes, sure, it'd be nice if Bethesda and/or Obsidian kicked in some kind of free aftermarket grooviness to acknowledge our frustration. But who knows how likely that is? I guess it depends on how embarrassed they are at a corporate level at the travesty they released. It's possible that they've completely run out of [censored.] Maybe they really do expect to utilize cash-bearing end-users as their Test Team. Maybe it was their plan all along to release the game the moment it looked remotely playable, and to worry about ironing out the kinks only after the game showed a profit.
I hope it's more likely that they're appropriately embarrassed, are scrambling to fix it as quickly and thoroughly as possible, and that they truly regret our inconvenience.
But it's probably too much to hope for some kind of reward for putting up with this. The way I see it, if they were classy enough to be handing out free goodies (DLC or whatever) by way of apologizing for this debacle, then they wouldn't be the kind of company to allow it to happen in the first place.
Consider how quickly the first patch was released after launch, though those patches take time to be certified by Microsoft. There's no way they didn't see this coming before launch.