it's all always the same. only way to realize your race is through guardcomments and banditinsults
Sadly, this is all too true. And I hate it! With the game like that, the only thing that makes race matter is the tiny skilladvantages and a mostly useless Greater Power. Effects like the Dunmeri Fire Resistance is still very good, but in the long run, races only matter for appearence.
When I have worked on new NPCs in a mod of mine, I have added race specific answers and replies to make it a small difference at least, and it's not hard to do so. Therefore, I'm a bit dissapointed in Beth on this.
Of course, what takes time and money is VA, but they could've at least made some deeper dialogue.