It's pretty much your own fault if you shout and there is friendly fire (and a lot of the shouts can't have friendly fire, i.e. slow time). Companions walking into crossfire is siruational and can happen with any sort of attack, even melee. Only unrelenting force knocks down your enemy and beating him whiles hes on the ground is not boring for all (and you're not forced too use it anyway). Hardly seems like a long list to me.
Yes, it's pretty much my own fault I end up
not using shouts because I can hit friendlies.
I'm not touching the main quest though, so it's not a big deal since I don't even have any dragon souls to spend.