bought it for like 180, so im guessing i bought it to high?
damn, i could have gotten a better card for less money

I'd say you bought it too high unfortunately. The GTX 460 1GB could be had for $150 and beats the GTX 275:
http://www.anandtech.com/bench/Product/169?vs=180
For close to $180, could've gotten a Radeon 6870 or GTX 560...and those cards beat a GTX 460:
http://www.anandtech.com/bench/Product/290?vs=313
The GTX 275 should've been about a $110card if it was new. Used, one can get it for around $80 these days. Return it if you can.