Is that....her/him/thy in your avatar?
She is not in my avatar. I added a link to her pic in my other post. My avatar is Artemisia, my High Elf who was also part Khajiit, due to magical experimentation.
Pertaining to your character being transixual - are we talking about one of those rare cases where it happens naturally, or surgically?
Because I'm pretty sure the folks in Nirn don't have the know-how to do such a thing (if it's even possible in the ES universe -- it could not be.)
Then again, it could be magical in origin or nature... Hmm...
But, honestly, I hope you understand that being transixual is, well, niche; unless developers are purposely rooting through the niche while in development, you're not likely to 'represented' anywhere in-game. Hopefully you can understand that they're not trying to insult because of that.
If you mean transforming the male genitals into female ones, it is a matter of debate if that is possible in the ES universe. People can use magic to summon monsters from other dimensions, talk to deities, create undead, heal the worst of wounds and diseases, steal souls and use them for batteries, etc... How difficult is it to turn an innie into an outie compared to all that? IRL, in the ancient world it was common for male to females to simply cut off their male genitals, often as part of a religious ceremony. They supplemented that by taking what amount to estrogen pills from plants with naturally estrogenic properties, like wild yams. Because these usually double as birth control, they are already known in their societies (the first modern birth control pills were developed from a Native American contraceptive using wild yams). Then it is just a matter of growing your hair long and wearing female attire. In ES, one can easily imagine alchemy supplying the estrogen with no problems at all. I can also picture magical hair removal as well. In fact, I bet that would be a big hit with all women at the magic day spas.