But now I'm playing a character who has no interest whatsoever in Skyrim's politics or the outcome of the war, and I've noticed something odd. If you don't do the quests, the war never progresses... Skyrim is simply locked in an eternal state of war. And even worse, the fighting doesnt continue forever, it just freezes in time forever! absolutely nothing about the state of Skyrim's civil war changes until you, the player, participates in it. This seems a little bit silly to me...
Why can't the war continue as it normally would after Ulfric escapes from Helgen, and then you can decide to join in from the very start, forget about it and then jump in later at whatever point the war is at, or just ignore it completely and let it resolve itself? I know the TES universe has always revolved around the player character, and I understand why it's done that way. For example, the return of the dragons can't be resovled without the Dragonborn, and the game isn't any fun if someone else is the Dragonborn, so there's no reason for that to progress without you. But in the case of the civil war it seems strange. Your character has nothing to do with the war unless he decides to join a side and become a soldier, which I don't always want to do.
Does anyone else wish it was possible for the war to be fought without you?

). And if you adventure for long enough around Skyrim, you'll have to participate in the war in some way or another, which I think is a good way to show how it affects everyone, even the chosen of Akatosh on their journey.