I think about how many times my character has died... Probably wouldn't want to live in Skyrim. But it's amazing how when you're playing your brain shuts down - Video games in general - my roommate in college didn't realize he had flunked out of school because of Diablo.
Immersion and distraction are certainly a huge draw for people with games like this. They are for me. And once long ago, they were a HUGE draw for me to escape my svcky life. But like anything, it can become an addiction (like your roommate). One must learn balance in life. Gaming is PART of my life. It isn't ALL of my life. I set boundaries for myself. For me, weekend DAYS is my game time WHEN I'm not doing anything else with friends or family.
But even I have to admit: being rich and famous just for doing good deeds is pretty awesome compared to real life.
