No need to apologise, as I honestly haven't a clue what you are asking, or where I would find it.
Coming mainly from MW (my oblivion modding knowledge is long forgotton), everything is insanely more complex and disorganised

I think I can now see what is causing the spell not to be used.
It's using ParalysisFFAimed Magic Effect, which has an alteration skill requirement of 75. My actor never has this so will not make use of the spell. I believe I'd have to either change my actors Class, or copy the Magic Effect to change the skill requirement.
Since my actor behaves like a vampire, but is a ghostly dragon priest, I'm going to try changing the class to match the vampires plus also make a low skill clone of the effect.