Rule of Thumb, ask for permission first and always give credit, even if you say, "This mod was inspired by XYZ Mod by ABC Modder"
Giving credit is obviously good practice (and may even be a requirement, if, for example, an open source license applies).
If the author is silent about reuse, then perhaps a more neutral approach is to ask what their terms are.
That hopefully acknowledges sensitivity and diversity.
If the author indicates that the material is open, all well and good. Otherwise, we can decide whether to ask for permission or walk away.
In my experience, the "silent majority" includes both people who expect an authorisation request and others who think this hobby is about sharing.
P.S. The post I have quoted was in the specific context of how
ideas are used, but my comment is a general one.