They have a great deal of sixual equality. This alone makes it very difficult to place in Earth history. That's before you get to magic and the obviation of the need for technological progress. Post feudal politically, and their attitudes, violence notwithdtanding, are pretty 'renaissance'.
Perhaps. There were women warriors in medieval epics like Brunhilda, the Warrior-Queen of Iceland, from the Nibelung Saga.
Apparently there were historical Shieldmaidens in some parts of Scandinavia during this era as well. So Skyrim is not so far-fetched with its gender roles.


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