Alt-1 unhides everything thats hidden, pressing 1 will only change the visibility of things you have selected
Yes, but if the object isn't REALLY hidden, but you can't see it in the render window, you can select where it SHOULD be and hit 1 three times to make it visible. Definitely had that one several times, especially for large objects.
My best facepalm moment was spending an hour or so trying to figure out why my NPC wasn't appearing in-game. I had placed some new static meshes in an existing world cell and put my NPC on top of that. I TCL'd and found my NPC inside the statics because I forgot to alter the cell's navmesh. Yeah, that was a good one.